Six Actions That Instantly Trigger a Narcissist

Narcissists love to blame others for their problems. They love to shift the guilt instead of taking responsibility. So, when someone refuses to be manipulated into feeling guilty or accepting the blame being placed on them it angers the Narcissist. Because you are choosing to hold them accountable for their problems or their bad actions. So, this will make the Narcissist very angry. There will be a lot of resistance from the Narcissist as they never take accountability. Because even when they claim to be repentant and apologetic to appease someone it is not genuine. As I explained in this video the Narcissist has either found a way to justify what they did, or they are still in denial that is their fault. Basically, they have not accepted responsibility, but they are happy for you to think that they have. But forcing a Narcissist to take accountability for their problems will anger them immensely.

The fourth thing Narcissists hate is being made fun of or laughed at.

Many Narcissists take themselves very seriously so are apt to become super defensive or aggressive when they are made fun of. Of course, they have no issues laughing at others and making inappropriate jokes but then they cannot handle it when someone does it to them. Narcissists have double standards with everything. And they hate it when people treat them how they treat others.

The fifth thing Narcissists hate is being told the truth.

Narcissists are pathological liars and manipulators and when someone calls them out for what they are it angers them. The truth is the Narcissist’s poison. They spend their lives pretending to be something they are not and are constantly running from themselves. So, when someone dares to highlight these negative characteristics, they will defend, and spew more lies to protect themselves.