In this artcile, we will explain the very complicated and dangerous undertaking of protecting yourself when you uncover/unmask a covert narcissist and the dysfunctional relationship they trick you into. Because of their manipulative nature and the fact that they are often respected and even adored by others, taking them on directly is a big mistake.
The first thing I want to say to all of my YouTube viewers: if you are a victim of a covert narcissist, please don’t be so hard on yourself. They thrive on being able to fool. They thrive on being able to deceive, not because they’re sociopaths or liars, but because they can’t get what they want if the world knows who they really are. So my advice is don’t beat yourself up. So, the worst thing you can do when you uncover a covert narcissist is to beat yourself up and to think that you are stupid, and you fell for it and to just ridicule and drag yourself across the coals. You are just one of many, many victims of this person.
The second thing I recommend is to calm down. When you uncover the covert narcissist’s real motives and you finally understand that what you see is not what really is, if you uncover it and you bring it to light, especially in public, they have everything to gain by making you look bad, making you look irrational, by making you look mentally ill, or just to intimidate you and berate you until you actually recoil and admit to them that you were wrong. So, let me repeat, it is to not call them out, especially in public, because there is too much at stake for them to lose that audience, that group of people, that job that supplies them, not only their narcissistic riches or narcissistic rewards, but sometimes their job.
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