Do you know what might make a narcissist panic? By the end of this article, you will have four tactics that will send that narcissist into a tizzy and turn the tables on them in a way that they normally do to you.
Now, if you are dealing with a narcissist, that narcissist is probably driving you crazy, or maybe even making you feel insane. You’re thinking, Is there any way to make them panic? Yes, there is. But first, let me just go through a couple of things that they do to you, because it’s important to understand that so that you can understand the flip side of it and what makes them panic.
So, a couple of their go-to things are gaslighting and shifting.
Gaslighting is trying to make you think that you’re crazy. What they’ll do is say, “Oh, we talked about that,” or “Don’t you remember that?” Or, “No, that’s not how that went.” They shift what they said, what you guys talked about, or what you know you said so that it meets their agenda, which is to manipulate you and make you think that you’re crazy. So gaslighting is definitely one of their favorite tactics.
Another favorite tactic is lying.
They are total pathological liars. The crazy thing about narcissists is that they will lie about things they don’t even need to lie about. You think to yourself, Why are you lying about that? You didn’t even need to lie about that. But narcissists think they need to manipulate everything. They don’t believe that they can get anything just in a normal way. They feel like they have to lie. So, they will lie even about things that are readily verifiable, which is pretty crazy. In many of my other articles, I talk about making sure that you document everything that you do because it will eventually contradict itself. They will eventually put things in writing that are completely contradictory to what is happening or what they’ve said before. Now they’ll have some explanation for it, but that doesn’t mean that you won’t eventually be able to use it against them.
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