Today I want to talk about five things that narcissists hate and normal people love. But I want to focus on what you can do if you find yourself in a relationship with somebody that’s like this. So, let’s get started.
1 narcissist hate holidays
they hate festivities; they hate birthdays; they hate anniversaries; they hate anything that’s a cause for celebration that comprises something other than recognizing their gift to the earth. So, if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, they will sabotage every special occasion and use it to get other people miserable. So that they can feed their narcissistic supply. Why?
Well, special occasions are a time for celebration, there is time to reflect on your values on the people that you love, there is time to put away or put aside your stress and your problems and focus on things that are important to you and special to you. That’s a problem for the narcissist because they are the only thing special in their eyes, and this creates in the narcissus pathological jealousy. They’re jealous that other people can have genuine happiness without faking it, they’re jealous that other people can enjoy the company of others without thinking of how they can manipulate and get something out of somebody, they’re jealous that people know how to have fun, they only pretend. So, what can you do if you’re in this situation?
the first thing is to recognize that is how they are if every year you’re hoping for a different anniversary or a different special occasion that this year things are going to be different especially if months prior to this the narcissist acts as if things are going to be different. You’re setting yourself up to be hurt. They know what you want and they can give you what you need, their power. Their narcissistic supply comes in denying you that and watching you suffer.
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