In today’s article, we are going to talk about what you can expect the narcissist to do when they figure out that you know who they are or that you’re onto them. It’s important to explore this topic because, during this time, it can become a very scary and confusing experience for the victim. So today, I am going to give you the top six things that you can expect the narcissist to do when they think you have figured them out.
The first thing you can expect is to be in love. They are going to try to bomb these new ideas you have about them. Love bombing has traditionally worked for them in the past, so it will usually be the first thing they go to and try to confuse and manipulate you into completely abandoning these new beliefs you have about them.
Number two, if the love bombing didn’t work and you aren’t succumbing to their charm, then they will move right into gaslighting you. They will try to manipulate your perceptions and your interpretation of what you have concluded about them. They may tell you that they didn’t do what you think they did or that your memories of whatever happened are wrong. They might even go so far as to say that you’re paranoid or a drama queen, or they might tell you how stupid you are for coming to such a ridiculous conclusion about who they truly are. But one thing is for sure: you can expect tons of gaslighting.
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