Narcissists are unable to feel fulfilled or content. And it is not just with material possessions or status it also includes, relationships and the amount of pain they can inflict. Therefore, even if a Narcissist has managed to ruin you professionally, mentally, socially etc. They will still not be satisfied. They will always want more. Even when you cease to exist on this earth, they still will not let you be. Why is it so hard for the Narcissist to move on? Why is it so hard for them to let the dead rest in peace?
Today I will be talking about why the Narcissist just cannot let go. Why even after someone dies, they still have to tear them down. And it is further confirmation that whether dead or alive the Narcissist has no respect for anyone. In this article, I answered the question of whether or not the Narcissist will ever stop seeking revenge. And the simple answer is no. Narcissists never have enough of seeing you broken, hurt, distraught etc. We have to remember that Narcissists feed off of negativity as well and it is their preferred source of Narcissistic Supply.
As some people say Narcissists are Sadistic. They take pleasure in inflicting pain, punishment or humiliation on others. Another reason why they continually seek revenge is because they do not forgive. Offending a Narcissist is not difficult at all because they are very petty and insecure. But once you have offended them that is it. There is nothing you can do to make them forgive you or change their mind from hurting you. Your fate is sealed.
The Narcissist has you marked for destruction. So, no matter how much they act unbothered or play nice and pretend to care they are still plotting for your downfall or just waiting for the right opportunity to kick you while you are down. Because in the mind of the Narcissist no matter how small the actual grievance it is amplified or magnified from their point of view. And because the Narcissist is already paranoid and super defensive thinking everyone is out to get them that small offence is confirmation to the Narcissist that you are indeed a threat. You are the enemy. Then there are the Smear Campaigns which is another article where I addressed separately answering the question of when will the Smear Campaign and the answer is never.
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