The hatred of the narcissist is real, and that is why I have addressed it quite a few times here on this website. I have specifically spoken about the hatred that narcissists have for people around them and the different ways they display this hate. And the truth is that the narcissist does not have or need a good reason to hate you; they just will. But there are a few things I want to talk about today that will help you understand a bit more about why you can end up on the wrong side of the narcissist by doing nothing at all. Because at the end of the day, the things that the narcissist hates about you are not worth the hate. This is why no one is safe around a narcissist, because the more they get to know you and get closer to you, the more they will hate you. You can do and say all the right things that a normal person would appreciate, but a narcissist will not. The hate will remain.
One of the first things the narcissist usually hates is your independence.
Independence is basically the ability to act and make decisions on your own. And this is especially true of the narcissistic parent and the narcissistic romantic Partner. Narcissistic parents do not want independent children, and narcissistic partners want full control of their partners. They want to know everything. They want you to seek permission from them for everything. They would plan your day if you let them. Narcissists see their partners and children as possessions, not individuals. So, they hate it when you are not dependent on them for anything. Your independence is one of the things that the narcissist slowly and sneakily steals from you over time. It is one of the three things I talked about in this article. Your independence, or lack thereof, plays a big role in the amount of control a narcissist has over you.
Another thing the narcissist hates is when you have your own space.
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