If you were dating someone and the engagement ended, they would automatically hop into another relationship due to the lack of supply, whether you were dumped or left on your own. They’ll show it off to everyone. They would show that you were the issue; it wasn’t them, and you were the one who made a mistake. I see a lot of people get discouraged as a relationship fails and the narcissist enters another one and it hurts them, but it has nothing to do with who they are or what they did. It’s all about their vulnerability, and you’re no longer a reliable supply outlet.
As soon as you find out who this guy is, you’ll start to see true evil. You’ll see this person in a way you’ve never seen them before. The mindset would be diametrically contrary to that which occurred at the outset of the relationship. What a narcissist does in a fit of indignation can be incredibly risky. This is similar to any illness or condition in that they are going through withdrawal because you have taken away their beloved toy — you — and you are revealing them — telling the world who this individual is, which would cause them to erupt in anger. This anger is a coping strategy that they used to deal with the situation. You’re announcing to the public that they’re not fine, which goes against their whole persona and the role they’re representing. Physical assault, verbal abuse, violence, coercion, being persistent in getting what they desire, gaslighting, spreading lies, and using the “I’m the victim” technique are all examples of narcissistic anger. It has the potential to go in either direction.
They’ll revert to their usual methods until the anger has subsided a bit. They’ll immediately resort to coercion in order to maintain influence of your and others’ views of them. Cruelty exists when they are conscious that you are still aware of who they are. They’ll do anything to get under the skin and reveal your real self. They begin to poke at your wounds so they know where they are and how to get under your skin. They will provoke you and demonstrate that you are insignificant.
They try to get under your clothes, but you are powerless to save them. If you respond, you will feel happier, and they will get a high off your misery. It gives them a sense of importance. It’s a rush, similar to showering them with affection and appreciation. It’s the same as being caught up in the drama and becoming angry. If it’s bad or optimistic, a narcissist craves publicity.
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