Narcissists are takers. They are selfish, greedy and feel entitled to what others have. They constantly compare their lives to others and are never satisfied with what they have. So, in their bid to try and level the playing field, they go about trying to destroy the lives of the people around them. Because for them to feel good about themselves everyone else must be below them.
So, if a Narcissist can destroy your relationships, take your money or any other assets, they will. But aside from these, there are more important things that the Narcissist wants to take from you. These are things that can change you forever. These are things that will give the Narcissist the advantage they need over you. There are six things that the Narcissist wants you to lose.
One of the first things the Narcissist wants you to lose is your self-esteem. Self-esteem is about having a healthy relationship with yourself. You love yourself, you accept yourself, and you are confident or secure in your abilities. This is something the Narcissist will want to eradicate to gain mastery over you. So, they will criticize and belittle you. They will try to silence you and make you feel like your opinions are not useful or valid. They want you to doubt yourself. They do not want you to trust yourself. They do not want you to take care of yourself. They would prefer it if you invested that time and love in them. They basically want you to neglect yourself, your wants, and your needs and put them first. The Narcissist wants you to start feeling unworthy and unsure of yourself because this can then lead to the next thing the Narcissist wants you to lose, which is your individuality—your Identity.
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