Get it? They treated you badly, you’re upset, they deserve everything they possibly could get, and the one thing that you possibly want them to feel is to feel sorry for what they did. So, I’m going to look at this in the video and how you can do that.”
The first thing that I’m going to say to you is, the narcissist doesn’t care. They don’t care about what they have done to you, they don’t care about how it’s made you feel. Do you know why? Because as long as it’s getting their needs met, that’s all that matters to them. It’s about them, it’s not about you.”
So, in their minds, they just want to know that they are okay, they got their needs met, they are doing what they need to do. So, you know how you make a narcissist suffer, or you make a narcissist think about you or make them feel sorry for you? That’s all about no contact.”
So, when I talk about how no contact is such a powerful tool for you, all right? When you remove all communication, all attention or focus, all of your energy away from the narcissist, they’re going to feel that, and they’re not going to like that. Because a narcissist thrives on all of those things; those are their needs that they are looking for to get met from someone like you.”
So, if you’re directing your energy, your attention, your kindness, your goodness on someone, they are feeling validated, they are benefiting from all of that. If you are a high-value individual, someone who is compassionate, someone who is kind, who is patient, that is what a narcissist regards as a high-value person. Because they can manipulate that within you; that’s what’s getting their needs met, that is what they are thriving on.
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