Today I want to talk about a quick and easy way to get the narcissist to leave you alone. To be honest, there are quite a few things you can say and do. For example, a lot is said about grey rocking the narcissist, which does work wonders, but for some people, it is difficult as it is outside of their character. So, if being quiet around the narcissist and disinterested is not your thing, then what I am going to share with you will definitely spice things up. But do remember that narcissists are easily offended, and although they will start avoiding you, they will also start smearing you more to try and turn others against you.
As you should also know, trusting a narcissist is never a good idea, so if you have already done what I am going to get into or will do, then know that they will be looking to punish you for it. And when it comes to dealing with a covert narcissist, they are good at concealing their anger, so it will not be obvious that they are not pleased with you. But do not be fooled. Some may even start acting extra nice when they have concocted a plan to destroy you. This is something I talked about in this article. When narcissist starts acting nice, it is time to be even more cautious because they are usually up to no good. So, just be prepared. But at the same time, if you are not someone they do need to interact with or someone in their immediate circle. They will just make a mental note not to ever engage with you in conversation ever again.
Narcissists will also retaliate when you have strong boundaries or tell them “No”. Both these things upset and offend the narcissist, and it’s because you protecting yourself, your time, and your interests is perceived as an attack against them, and they take it personally. In the mind of the narcissist, their wants and needs should always come first, not yours. This also applies when it comes to the narcissist’s thoughts, ideas, and opinions. So, what you can do that really annoys the narcissist and makes them avoid you is to voice your opinions that are in direct contrast to theirs.
A very wonderful book: Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
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