5 Favorite Sayings of a Narcissists and What They Mean

Narcissists are very strategic and planned when it comes to saying things. When it comes to the usage of words to influence your emotional state and inflict them, and almost all of them surprisingly follow the same patterns in their conversation, to deflect and project the things onto you and make the whole situation all about you, whether or not you have any role to play in what is happening. So what are their five most favorite sayings and what do they mean?

Number one: “You never let me finish when I’m saying something.”

When a narcissist says this, what they actually mean is, “I want you to stay silent because what you have to say is absolutely and completely valid. And those valid points would somehow counter my manipulative tactics and I might lose control. But I want my control to be there and I want to maintain it over to you so that I can keep getting supplied. And the best way to do that is to keep you silent. And I am making it all about you. I am seeding it out in your mind, in your brain, that you do not let me speak, when in reality it’s me only who has been speaking throughout the relationship. And all I do is I expect you to listen.”