If you can do whatever you want without caring about how it impacts other people, you’re nothing less than a predator, a reptile. It’s all about survival, about hunting people down, about using people. You may temporarily get your way, but consequences are coming for you. The consequences of not having anybody, even when you’re dying, not having even one reliable relationship, not even one person to truly depend on – that is the extent of their limit.
As an empath, you are loved and respected. Those who know how kind you are, how healing your presence is, seek you out. You are wanted by those who understand the depth of your understanding of the world and of self. People who admire you know your worth and what you bring to the table. You are a giver, a savior, and that’s not always a bad thing. You fix situations, avoid conflict, and seek peace – qualities that should be celebrated.
Narcissists do not contribute anything positive; they know how to take. Yet, you are a giver, a healer, and admired by those who appreciate your qualities. Being a savior is not always bad; it’s about choosing the right path over the easy one. You didn’t become callous, a predator, or manipulative, despite traumatic experiences. Your qualities are genuinely good, and the shame lies with the narcissist for using what is right with you against you.
8 Most Common Narcissist Lies That Make You Stay
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