After a breakup, the tracking and surveillance might continue for weeks, months, or even years due to the narcissist’s fixation on you and their need to keep tabs on you. “How are you doing?” they inquire. They would be overjoyed if you were stuck in your misery or anxiety and were unable to move on, but that’s how they naturally act and think. The problem is that they lack empathy, which prevents them from picking up on social and emotional cues. Their inability to feel empathy for others is a tragic symptom of their condition.
Relationships with narcissists typically progress through several stages, and discord is not the ultimate one. It’s merely the final step in ending a connection. Once you have established boundaries, the narcissist may still attempt contact or surveillance, but only when you take control of the situation and proclaim, “I quit,” will the relationship end for good. Narcissists’ frightening antics are typically rooted in their inability to read social cues and empathize with others as a result of early rejection or abandonment. A narcissist may react negatively to later rejection or abandonment. Narcissists may try to regain your attention after a breakup, but it isn’t because they’ve changed or because they’re sorry. This is because they view relationships as a means to an end, and they need your emotional approval.
A positive outcome can be achieved by maintaining one’s strength of character, cutting off all communication, and refusing to give in to the illusion that things will improve. Any assurances they give you are just words, and nothing will change. They will always be like that because this is who they are. The problem is not severe enough for you to break down, and I pray this article helps you see that. Remember that this is not about them, but about you. When you reject an offer, the discussion is over.
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