To a narcissist, this is a game of winning and losing, and they would never want to lose. That’s why their relationships never work. They are extremely rigid, and without compromise, no relationship can ever work. But they expect only you to compromise. They expect you to forget the pain they caused, act like nothing happened, and play a game that they always win.
When you miss someone, you try to reach out and reconnect. You might call, text, or find a way to meet up. It’s a natural, human response. But when a narcissist misses you, they don’t reach out to reconnect in a sincere or meaningful way. They don’t miss you for who you are; they miss the feelings you gave them. They miss the admiration, the attention, the validation. They miss how you made them feel about themselves. They miss the power they had over you, the control they exerted.
Narcissists don’t have the humility to come to you and say, “I miss you. I feel really weak right now and just want to be with you.” Instead, they do something really disgusting. When a narcissist notices your absence, a thought pops up in their head. This thought doesn’t push them to find ways to connect with you directly, to talk to you. They don’t do any of that, especially if they know you see through them. Their demonic, destructive, disordered brain takes over, and it starts finding ways to reach out in very unacceptable ways. They may stalk you or manipulate you into coming back to them. They want you to come begging and crawling so they can bestow upon you their “blessings,” the blessing of being with you again, of accepting you again.
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