Ever felt like someone was charming the socks off you, only to leave you emotionally shredded later? Maybe you met the “dream partner” who mirrored your interests, the “loyal friend” who always needed saving, or the “genius boss” who promised career-launching opportunities. If so, there’s a chance you crossed paths with a narcissist. And buckle up, because their favorite weapon is the lie.
But don’t worry, we’re here to arm you with truth bombs. Here are 8 lies all narcissists tell, and how to see through their smoke and mirrors:
1. “I’m perfect for you.”
Yeah, right. This love-bombing is intense, but remember, narcissists only mirror your desires, not their own. Watch for inconsistencies and a lack of genuine interest in you as a person.
2. “Everyone else is terrible.”
Their exes are “crazy,” their coworkers are “jealous,” and their family is “toxic.” This victim mentality isolates you and makes you the narcissist’s loyal confidante. Remember, if everyone’s the problem, the common denominator might be…the narcissist.
3. “I’m misunderstood.”
This pity play is designed to guilt you into taking on their emotional baggage. Don’t fall for it! Healthy people own their mistakes and communicate authentically.
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