A narcissist only considers themselves as important. They believe they are always right, and they could care less what you think. Thankfully, by using the word “we” instead of “I” or “you,” you can deceive people into supporting you. The usage of the “we” pronoun can really end arguments and motivate people to act.
Use phrases such, “To beat them in a combat, “We seem to have strayed from our course. We should switch topics, or “We both care a lot about this. Perhaps we ought to go on to something else.”
To counteract them, provide comments and appreciation.
The secret to getting what you want from a narcissist is to be flattering. You don’t have to worry about boosting their ego because they already believe they are superior to everyone else. Just smile and highlight what you like about them. Generic compliments are OK if you’re at a loss for words because the narcissist won’t care.
“You’re so smart!”
you might exclaim.
“You always seem to have the right response,”
Excellent work today.
Before offering criticism, say something uplifting.
A very wonderful book: Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
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