The 10 things a Narcissist Can Never Give You
Number three: You’re onto them. Another reason they’ll pick fights is that it has become clear that you see right through the bullshit and aren’t falling for the false image and all the perception manipulation they’ve got going on. Moreover, you’re not buying into their lies. Once they realize you’re starting to see beyond the mask and false persona, it becomes a game of devaluing and discrediting you as you enter the devalue and discard phase of the toxic abuse cycle. You become the enemy and a target once they realize they can no longer control, manipulate, dominate, dupe, or deceive you into believing there’s something they’re not. You’re a lot more fun for the narcissist when you’re all charmed and impressed. When you cease to be fooled by their fake, phony facade, it’s not over yet. First, it’s on.
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Number four: The fourth reason they’ll pick fights with you is so they can now blame and shame you as a result of deliberately provoking a negative reaction from you. This is a sick technique commonly used by narcissists called narcissistic baiting.
The point is, narcissists deliberately pick fights with the deliberate intent to manufacture a specific outcome, namely, being able to point the finger at, blame, and shame you. They enjoy dragging you down to their level and getting you to roll around in the mud with them. They enjoy getting you all worked up, angry, overwhelmed, and confused if they can. They enjoy the toxicity and negativity it produces. It’s their comfort zone. And they especially enjoy being able to take the focus off of themselves and their own maladaptive behavior by pointing the finger at you and labeling you as the problem. This really works for them.
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