So, this is why they want to destroy you before they leave because, because my friends, if they destroy you, you are on the floor, you are crying, you’re not going to be able to move forward, you’re not going to be able to forget the narcissist. That is what they want. They want you to not forget them because they think that if they leave you on the floor over here, they’re going to come back for you, and you’re still going to be on the floor waiting for them.”
They don’t want you to get better because if you get better, you get stronger, you get your power back. And if you get your power back and you get stronger, you’re able to move forward and live your life. And they know, they know that you will do that. But they don’t want you to leave them behind because, you know why, my friends? Because they can’t do that for themselves. They can’t heal from this; they can’t heal from any of their trauma that they have gone through. They’re not self-actualized; they don’t look at this and think, ‘Oh, I want to move forward, I want to do the best for me.’ Because they are disconnected from themselves; they are not for themselves. They’re actually against themselves, even though you may think that they do things to kind of help them, but they don’t. They’re just merely surviving in this scenario, in this in their life. They don’t actually ever heal.”
I mean, how do they heal? They just go around in the same cycles over and over again because they don’t look inwards, they’re not self-actualized, they’re not self-aware, they can’t do this for themselves. Self-awareness, self-actualizing, self-awareness doesn’t mean going to therapy or receiving medication to help you to see that there is work that needs to be done in order for you to reach that state. But they’re not willing to put the work in; they don’t want to know. And the reason why they don’t want to know is because they have disconnected from themselves, they have become so polarized from who they actually really are.
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