So, what narcissists often try to do is gaslight you, try to make you feel bad, try to make you feel like you’re the only one who thinks that way, because the whole neighborhood thinks that I’m amazing because they’ve lined up their flying monkeys, and especially covert narcissists are really, really good at this.
What they’re really trying to do is make you think that you are nuts and that you’re the only one who feels this way about this person. You’re the only one who thinks this way about a certain thing that they’re trying to convince you of. So therefore, you’re the weird one; you’re the odd ball. So you go, “Well, I don’t want to be weird. I don’t want to be odd. I don’t want to be the odd man out.” I guess I’ll go along since everybody else thinks whatever the narcissist is trying to convince you of. So that’s what’s going on with that.
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