Narcissists Are 100% Done With You Forever After They Do This

But why can’t a narcissist have a real, genuine connection with someone? Because the natural energy and strength people get from love and affection are replaced with hate and anger for the narcissist, And as soon as the intimacy gets cut off, they lash out, feeling confident that they hope for you. This is when the trauma bond becomes dangerous. You start questioning whether the narcissist ever really loved you. It all starts to feel like one big lie. However, if you can remember that this person was pretending all along and is incapable of reciprocating actual love, you’ll avoid getting stuck in a toxic cycle of seeking love from someone who can’t give it.

Once they’re done with you, the narcissist has already moved on to someone new or is already texting a few others on the side. It’s like they’re always on the hunt, always trying to get their fix. It’s a vicious cycle that doesn’t reflect how normal people seek love and connection in their lives.

It’s easy to use extreme language and paint all narcissists as demons, but that kind of thinking is dismissive and unhelpful. When we do this, we’re no better than the narcissists themselves, who label us as bad people to justify their wrongdoings. It’s essential to have a nuanced understanding of the situation. It could be that we’re seeking love in unhealthy ways or exhibiting codependent tendencies. This isn’t to say that we’re necessarily bad people, but it’s important to take responsibility for our actions and work towards self-improvement.

One of the hardest realizations is that the intimacy we experienced with the narcissist was never genuine. It’s unsettling to think that we were living a lie, but we were too clouded by our love for them to see the red flags. It’s only through introspection that we can identify why we got stuck in these toxic relationships. By doing the work to better ourselves, we can move forward and pursue genuine connections with people who can reciprocate our love and affection.

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