Think of the movie “Venom” and how the parasite takes over Tom Hardy’s character, making him strong but at the cost of feeding off him. That is exactly what happens with a narcissist. They let this demon in, allowing it to take over and give them power while consuming them. They destroy all their good traits, becoming inhuman entities that torture others.
When you try to save a narcissist, all you get back is hatred, pushback, and pain. You think if you love them enough, you can fix them, but you never succeed because you’re not trying to save an inner child; you’re trying to save an inner demon. If you are one of the few lucky people to see glimpses of a narcissist’s true self, you may briefly see their vulnerable side, giving you false hope. They may momentarily acknowledge their suffering and unhappiness, but this awareness is temporary. Soon, they return to their old patterns.
Their true self is like an old building falling apart—you can guess how it once looked, but you cannot reconstruct it because it’s beyond hope. It’s not a place to stay. Their heart is made of rocks—beating but dead. You can have compassion from a distance but must not go in, or you will lose yourself trying to save them.
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