Number four: They Would Pretend to Fall Asleep. If they’re unable to leave the bed, they’ll patiently wait for you to fall asleep, similar to a predator stalking its prey. Once you’re asleep, they’ll have the freedom to engage in their dubious activities. They may stealthily leave the bed or remain, avoiding alerting you. After you’ve fallen asleep, they might access pornographic websites, engage in online chats, or participate in sexting, actions that betray your trust and violate the boundaries of your relationship. They might make phone calls and converse softly, ensuring you don’t overhear. If you suspect them of conversing with someone and inquire, they’ll dismiss your concerns as paranoia, gaslighting you into believing your perceptions are inaccurate. In reality, they were indeed conversing with others, and your suspicions were justified. They engage in all these deceitful activities they dare not perform in your presence because they have the time and space to do so without your vigilance.
Number five: They Immediately Fall Asleep Following an Intense Argument. This experience is different yet quite common. Have you encountered this scenario as well? Following a heated argument, they promptly fall asleep, leaving you shattered, unsupported, and bewildered. You’re left grappling with the aftermath, struggling to comprehend what transpired. They fall asleep immediately because, by subjecting you to verbal abuse and mistreatment during the argument, they regulate their emotions; you become their emotional dumping ground. They project their inner hatred, venom, and anger onto you, making you the recipient of their negative energy. They unburden themselves, leaving you to carry the weight of their emotional baggage alongside your own distress, sadness, and shock. This burden becomes unbearable, as you have your own emotional limits to contend with. They employ sleep as an immediate means of escape, disregarding your tears and pain. They don’t wake up to check on you or offer support; quite the opposite. In a cruel manner, they demand silence, insisting you cry softly if at all, as your emotions are considered a nuisance, and you are not permitted to express them. If you do, you’re punished, pushed away, and blamed for their actions.
In summary, they employ sleep in numerous ways to avoid accountability, escape situations, disconnect from you, cheat on you, betray you, and ultimately, destroy you. This behavior is unequivocally malevolent. If this isn’t evil, then what is? I hope you found this episode insightful. If so, let me know in the comments. Don’t forget to like and share this episode with others who may benefit from reading it.
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