That’s fueling that desire to be seen but you’re doing it from within. Rather than chasing to be seen as if it’s by the narcissist who seems to be like the jockey with the carrot on the stick. You’re giving it to yourself so not only do you feel empowered but you’ll enjoy the things you’re doing. If you don’t view it that way and you’re staring at what this person isn’t giving you no matter how hard you try to get it. You’re not even going to be able to enjoy what you are doing.
As far as hearing yourself right? The toxic person doesn’t hear you. are you connected to self? Do you listen to what your inner self needs? For example, sometimes our inner self says I’m too tired to do that, I don’t really want to do that. I’ve done so much, I want to say no but we shut that voice up, why? Because we want to do it, because maybe the narcissist will appreciate it, maybe they’ll be happy with us and it never happens.
So, if you want other people to hear you, you have to hear you, and if your inner self says I need to say no. You need to listen and respect it even if it makes somebody else disappointed or upset, people are allowed to be disappointed and upset in life but you need to honor yourself.
When it comes to valuing yourself as well. How you see you? Starting to notice the things about you that you wish the narcissist noticed about you. You start valuing them. Whenever I talk about this I always think of when I’m out to eat, and my husband does this to me all the time. He’ll be like if he tastes something that he doesn’t like or that’s like completely disgusting he’s like “oh my god this is so gross try it” and I’m always like “no thanks” I have no desire to try that.
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