when a person gets to that point and they put down that boundary they feel good, it feels really good because you’re exercising self-love and self-respect. You’re basically telling yourself and telling others that you do not expect or will not tolerate abusive behavior, and you’re willing to make sure that nobody gives that to you as well.
When you give yourself that self-love, when you take those steps to protect and love yourself it feels good. but then the narcissist does something that completely flips your whole way of looking at it. When we are putting down a boundary in this way, we’re hoping that the other person loves and cares about us enough to respect that boundary, and the narcissist doesn’t.
So, we put that boundary down and suddenly they disappear, not only do they disappear but suddenly within three hours they’re in another serious relationship, we haven’t even begun to still heal from the pain of having to get to the point of putting down that boundary or of discarding or ending the relationship or slowing it down. We’re still healing from that because our emotions are involved in that. We’re still healing and they’ve moved on as if we never existed.
What happens when the narcissist does that, is it creates a thought? I call it the last lies their last thought that they’re trying to put into your head, and that thought is that you’ve made a mistake. They’re so happy, they’re moving on you’re still feeling pain because you’re still kind of going through the breakup, or the distance of the relationship you’re still kind of hurting they’re happy they moved on and it makes you think you made a mistake.
so many people will tell me, when I made, when I ended the relationship, I was so proud of myself I was so happy. But the way that they moved on as if I completely didn’t even exist made me feel as if I made a mistake; It rocked my world. I no longer felt like my feet were on solid ground. So, I wanted to make this article for those that are getting to that point where they want to end the toxic relationship that’s not healthy for them. This is something that’s very common with toxic people.
top 8 Phrases to Shut Down the Narcissists/Toxic People
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