How do you finally defeat a narcissist?

When you point out their weaknesses, narcissists utterly lose it. Unfortunately, you occasionally have to give constructive criticism, especially if you work with a narcissist. Before you tell them what’s wrong, commend them to lessen the blow. Additionally, it is preferable to frame the critique as positively as possible .

You might remark, “You’re the greatest analyst we have here, and while your reports do a great job of covering the data, we’d want more details to flesh them out,” in a professional setting.

You may say, “I love the paint job you did in the living room. I can tell you’ve been working very hard on the bathroom, but I think the trim needs an extra coat of paint,” if your partner is narcissistic.

Saying “You’re so wonderful to watch the kids. They loved watching a movie with you last time, but I was hoping you might forgo the second pack of candy this time” to a narcissistic relative might work.

Let them feel successful to reduce drama.

A narcissist will become enraged when you brag about your own accomplishments. They aspire to be the best and will stop at nothing to surpass you. You don’t have to minimize yourself in order to appease the narcissist. Just be careful not to brag about your achievements to spare yourself from having to deal with their turmoil. [6] If your spouse is a narcissist, emphasize how your accomplishments benefit the two of you. You may say, “We did this together,” or “I’m thrilled with how well we’re doing.”

You can choose not to share your successes or good news with a narcissistic relative. Let the rumor get around and they will find out.