Eight Things Narcissists Envy The Most About You

The third thing Narcissists envy about others is their empathy.

Narcissists are drawn to us because of our genuine empathy. But unfortunately, their aim is to use it against us. And although they view it as a weakness on our part, they still envy us for it. Because where there is true empathy, there has to be less negativity. Narcissists are filled with negative emotions, and it is because they have no love inside. They lack the ability to love and care for anyone. Without empathy, all they have are their negative emotions of fear, envy, contempt, anger, bitterness, and more. They cannot experience the satisfaction of being able to help someone from a place of compassion. All they can do is observe the happiness others experience as a result of true empathy.

The fourth thing Narcissists envy about others is their healthy relationships.

Narcissists themselves struggle to have deep, meaningful relationships, and the lack of empathy has a lot to do with it. Because no care or consideration exists within a Narcissistic Relationship. Manipulation is rife. Everything the Narcissist does is for their benefit. Double standards abound. And drama, confusion, and pain are the bitter fruits of these relationships. So, when they meet people who are having wholesome, healthy relationships, their mission is to destroy those relationships. Narcissists are envious when people can relate to each other in loving, helpful, and selfless ways. These are things narcissists cannot do, so they envy those who can.

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The fifth thing Narcissists envy about others is their healthy self-esteem.

Because although Narcissists like to give the impression that they love themselves, they don’t. What they love is the fake self they have created, but they know that it is not the real them. So, daily, they try to hide their shame and insecurities, knowing that they are impostors. And because they do not love themselves, they constantly need someone to validate them and make them feel relevant. They need people to prop them up and boost their fragile egos. Narcissists are insecure, and they have no true sense of self as they live a life of denial. So, they envy those who have a healthy self-esteem, and if they can, they try to lower that person’s self-esteem.

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