5 Warning Signs To Recognize A Narcissist

Oh, my God. That’s it…! This is what you have been waiting for! So much in common. It is strange. And incredible sexual chemistry! Lots of attention, interaction, and an immediate connection. All those things you dreamed of, right? It’s wrong. The narcissist is an expert in this area. They know everyone likes to feel special, and their tendency to seek and woo those who may be a little emotionally vulnerable or too forgiving or insecure makes it even easier for them.They want the target to feel that there is an intense connection in order to let their guard down. It will also create confusion later when affection is randomly denied.Reflecting the target’s likes, dislikes, dreams, passions, etc., further intensifies the “connection”. But beware, this is the initial trap set by the narcissist. Someone who sounds too good to be true can be just that if some following are also present.

2. They speak for themselves… constantly.

Narcissists are fascinated by one thing and only one thing – themselves. You may notice that the conversation is always changing in their direction, that whenever you talk about something “you” they quickly step in or redirect to them. They praise their accomplishments, are often boastful, and seem to hold themselves in higher esteem than most other people. It’s not always something you get right away, as their charisma and charm can be a diversion from the fact that they’re actually quite superficial and self-centered. If you stick around, it gets incredibly boring and you notice discrepancies and recognize a lot of egos swelling. The same boastful stories are repeated often, and the lack of interest in anything other than your SELF only contributes to the erosion of your importance in the relationship.