Seventh, they are highly concerned with the opinions of others. to the point of paranoia. They care much more about appearances than they do about reality. In other words, they’re obsessively concerned with what others think and might be saying about them. so much so that they’ll actually try to manipulate and control you with fear, guilt, and shame by telling you all the things that they’ve heard about you.
Even if it’s all bullsh*t and they’re just making it all up, right? It’s a way of trying to manipulate you and control you. It’s hilarious if you’re anything like me. If you’re anything like me, you’re not actually obsessively concerned and all wrapped up in the opinions of others. In other words, I couldn’t give a flying bleep about a mate, and, you know, good luck with your sorry self.
When that is your state of being, that state of being is an entirely foreign concept to a covert narcissist and really messes with their head. They don’t know what to do with that. Like I said, it just does not compute.
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