How To Spot A Narcissist's Baiting Tactics

From being chronically tardy to giving half-hearted efforts, they’ll deliberately undermine you while playing the victim. When confronted, they’ll respond with, “You’re always on my back. I can’t do anything right, can I?”

7. Exaggerated or Fake Apologies

When caught in a mistake, they might offer a dramatic apology, such as, “I’m the worst person ever. Just pile it on.” Alternatively, they’ll give a conditional apology like, “I’m sorry, but this wouldn’t have happened if you hadn’t…” This keeps the focus off their behavior.

8. Public Embarrassment

They may make jokes or rude comments about you in front of others. Later, when you express hurt, they’ll dismiss it, saying, “You’re too sensitive. I was just joking.”

9. Condescending Remarks

Narcissists often mask their insults as backhanded compliments or dismissive comments, such as, “Well, I’m not surprised you couldn’t handle that.”

10. Interrupting and Monopolizing Conversations

They frequently cut you off or dominate discussions to keep you from expressing your thoughts. Their interruptions are often angry or forceful, designed to leave you feeling silenced and dismissed.