How Narcissists React to Being Confronted with the Truth

The second reaction is blame-shifting. This tactic takes the focus off them. Instead of addressing the issue, they will point fingers at you or others, insisting that if you hadn’t done this, they wouldn’t have done that. Essentially, they shift focus to someone else to distract from the truth and place blame elsewhere.

3. Temper Tantrum

A third common reaction is rage and intimidation. Confronting a Narcissist or presenting them with the truth about their actions can cause them to explode in a fit of rage. Expect anger, yelling, or aggressive behavior designed to shut you down. They may say things like, “How dare you accuse me?” or call you crazy, hoping their over-the-top reaction will intimidate you and end the confrontation. In their mind, their anger should signal that you are in the wrong, not them.

4. Victimhood

The fourth most probable reaction is playing the victim. Confronting them with the truth will be seen as an attack. They will twist the narrative to make themselves appear hurt or betrayed, making you feel guilty for confronting them. This deflects attention from the truth and places the blame on you for being “cruel.”

5. Silence

The fifth reaction is the silent treatment. Narcissists often use silence to regain control of a situation or person. They may shut down communication entirely, refusing to engage with the person confronting them. This leaves the situation unresolved and unclear. They hope you will set the truth aside to regain their attention and end the silent treatment.