To a narcissist, admitting the need for growth is tantamount to admitting imperfection. Their fear of vulnerability makes self-improvement an uncomfortable topic, as it threatens the tightly controlled image they present to the world.
7. If I make you feel so frustrated, why do you keep coming back?
Narcissists often criticize and belittle others, yet they continue to engage with those they demean. This behavior feeds their sense of superiority and provides emotional “supply” through conflict and control.
8. Why do you go silent?
The silent treatment is a common narcissistic tactic. By withdrawing, they express passive-aggressive anger while avoiding vulnerability. This behavior underscores their fear and inability to engage in open, honest communication.
In healthy relationships, admitting weaknesses is a strength. Narcissists, however, cannot embrace this principle. They resist openness and authenticity, which are essential for deep connections. Recognizing these patterns helps you avoid wasting emotional energy on people incapable of true engagement. Instead, seek relationships that value openness, mutual accountability, and authenticity.
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