Number Three: They give politically correct answers that mean nothing. They don’t commit to anything. Ask them a direct question, and they’ll dodge it with a vague, rehearsed response that keeps them looking good. They’ll say things that sound intelligent, but when you dissect their words, you realize they haven’t actually said anything at all. They master the art of talking without really talking. It’s all smoke and mirrors—words meant to maintain their image rather than actually communicate. This type of response serves two purposes: to avoid accountability and to keep you hooked. They leave their words open to interpretation so they can shift their stance at any moment. If you try to pin them down on something they previously said, they’ll act like you misunderstood or twist their words so it seems like they never actually said it. It’s a constant cycle of deflection, confusion, and emotional exhaustion.
Number Four: They talk like they’re giving a sermon. Every conversation is a lecture. They don’t speak to you; they speak at you. Their tone is authoritative, self-righteous, and patronizing. They act as if they are imparting divine wisdom and you should feel privileged just to be in their presence. There’s no space for discussion because they believe they are the final word on every subject. If you try to interject, they look at you like you’re a fool who just interrupted their grand revelation. They present themselves as infallible figures—like spiritual gurus, life coaches, or philosophers—who have it all figured out. Their speech patterns often include long, drawn-out pauses, dramatic emphasis, and an air of “I have been enlightened, and you are but a simpleton trying to understand my greatness.” It’s exhausting because it isn’t a conversation; it’s a performance, and you are just the audience.
Number Five: It feels like a dictator talking to a subservient audience. Conversational narcissists don’t engage in discussions; they deliver speeches. They expect deference, compliance, and admiration. They want you to agree and validate their brilliance. If you challenge them, you’ll notice a shift—maybe a condescending smile, a sharp dismissive response, or outright hostility. Their conversations aren’t about connection; they’re about control. They need to establish dominance in every interaction, and if you don’t comply, they’ll either crush your input or shut you out entirely. Their behavior mimics that of a cult leader or a tyrant. They don’t care if they make sense; they care if they have an obedient audience. If you dare to speak up, they will make you feel like an enemy of their narrative. They may even use passive-aggressive tactics like sighing loudly, rolling their eyes, or making sarcastic comments about how some people just don’t get it.
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