4 Things God Wants You To Do To Survive This Narcissism Epidemic

Don’t let anyone take advantage of your patience.

You’ve probably heard this a thousand times: “Be patient, be patient.”
Yes, patience is a virtue, but it does not mean tolerating abuse or staying in harm’s way.

God calls us to practice patience with wisdom, not blind endurance.
The Quran beautifully captures this balance. In Surah Al-Furqan, verse 63, it says:
“And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth humbly, and when the ignorant address them harshly, they say words of peace.”

This does not mean letting the narcissist win or have the final word. It means refusing to engage in their chaos.
By staying calm and centered, you take away their power to control your emotions.

Walking away from someone who consistently harms you is not weakness. It’s not anti-God—it’s wisdom.
If the narcissist refuses to change, you do not have to endure their behavior endlessly. God does not want you to sacrifice your well-being for someone who thrives on taking advantage of you.

3. Detach from Their Chaos

A narcissist’s favorite weapon is chaos. They thrive on pulling you into their drama, making you doubt yourself, and keeping you off balance.

You don’t have to play their game anymore.
In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna advises Arjuna to act with detachment, focusing on righteous action rather than being consumed by others’ behavior. Chapter 2, verse 47 states:
“You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions. Never consider yourself the cause of the results of your activities, nor be attached to inaction.”

This means doing what is right without tying yourself to their reaction. Detachment doesn’t mean you stop caring—it means you stop letting the chaos control your life.

When you detach, you reclaim your power and remind yourself that your worth is not tied to their approval.