The third consequence may be complete s£xual betrayal. We all know narcissists can be cheaters, and that is the most obvious form of trust breach. When you leave a narcissist after many years, you may find it difficult to open up s£xually again, as touch has been associated with mistrust.
Many survivors turn celibate, avoiding int!macy because they cannot stand the trauma that may arise from it. If you are in this situation, it’s okay. You don’t have to be s£xual or put yourself out there. What you can do is understand the root cause of your trauma response.
Finally, I want to address a topic that often goes unspoken: many female survivors of narcissistic abuse find themselves with partners who are closeted gay men. This situation can lead to extreme gaslighting. The woman may feel undesirable, and the man shows zero interest in her, making her question her worth. When she eventually finds out the truth, she experiences feelings of extreme rage and betrayal.
Healing and Moving Forward
If you are a survivor of narcissistic s£xual abuse, be easy on yourself. Be compassionate with your s£xual self. Reintroduce touch into your life, but it has to come from you. You can give yourself gentle hugs and learn to feel safe in your own presence.
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