You Won't Believe How a Narcissist Destroys Your S£xuality -

The complex trauma you experience in a narcissistic relationship leaves a devastating impact on your emotional and psychological well-being. But that’s not all; it also destroys your s£xuality. By that, I mean your s£xual experience and expression. So how does this happen? Well, you know how a narcissist uses s£x as a weapon. They withhold it, make you beg for it, and use it to violate you. They induce a strong trauma bond using s£x against you. They do all sorts of things that lead you to experience one of the most extreme forms of s£xual abuse, which you may or may not be able to recognize.

Understanding Narcissists and S£xuality

Let’s lay the foundation of this episode by trying to understand how narcissists are with s£x. Even though I have created many episodes on this topic, I’ll provide a brief overview for you to understand what I’m trying to say. Narcissists are quite mechanical; they do not have a s£xual self. Whatever they do in bed with you is nothing but a performance, and it’s a completely self-absorbed process for them. Whenever they get int!mate with you, they have an outcome in mind, and that’s not what happens in healthy, normal relationships.

For example, when a narcissist decides to make you think they are great at int!macy, they will certainly make it a pleasurable experience for you. It’s going to feel intense and be filled with fun, but they are focused on making you feel that way not to satisfy your needs, but to uphold their image in your eyes. They love the fact that they can make you feel a certain way or think a certain way about them, which may not be true at all.

Now, think of all the incidents, all the things they do: their mechanical nature, robotic nature, lack of touch, lack of int!macy, lack of connection, lack of respect, lack of vulnerability, and lack of reciprocity during s£xual int!macy. All of that combined leaves you with a lot of trauma that changes your s£xual self in many ways.