Why the Narcissist Ends Up Hating the New Supply Too
Because the narcissist doesn’t trust that new person—not even a little. In fact, what’s happening behind the scenes is more cruel than anything you remember. Why? Because this new one doesn’t know the rules yet, doesn’t know the dance. Oh, and the narcissist, they’re exhausted at having to start the manipulation all over again. You were trained; you were molded; you made their job easy. But this new person? They’re just work.
And if that new supply played any part in your heartbreak—if they lingered in the corners while you broke—then the narcissist has no respect for them at all. Because if they could betray you, what keeps them from betraying them? That kind of character is a mirror to the narcissist’s shame, and they hate mirrors. They rage at reflections.
So the cycle begins again—first silence, then blame, then punishment, until the mask slips and the storm rages. But you—you are the one who got away. You didn’t lose; you didn’t fail; you didn’t break. You escaped. You saw the truth and walked away. You survived something designed to destroy you, and that, dear heart, is what makes you powerful.
You were the one who woke up. You were the one who said, “No more.” You are the one who reached for light. So when the images come, when the whispers rise, when the memories try to rewrite your story, stand firm. That’s not your ending; that’s not your mirror; that’s not your truth. You are free now—free to heal, free to grow, free to feel love that doesn’t twist or tear or confuse.
The narcissist hasn’t changed, but you have. And that, my friend, is the beginning of something holy. Oh, precious soul, come closer. Because what I’m about to say might shake something loose in you—something buried under all that silent suffering. This is where your freedom starts—not with revenge, not with vindication, but with revelation.
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