At the end of the relationship the narcissist no longer paid attention to you, he didn’t care about you, everything revolved around the narcissist, he only focused on himself and his needs, he only cared about what he could get from you.
He scapegoated you and used you as an emotional punching bag. The narcissist took out his negative emotions on you and became angry at you even if you did nothing wrong, for no reason or an imaginary reason, the narcissist wanted you to try your hardest for him.
Narcissist wanted you in this relationship to be like a hamster that just wants to run faster and faster on its wheel. The narcissist wanted you to run around trying to please him and make him happy. The narcissist wanted you to try to make things better while he deliberately prevented you from doing so.
Nothing ever turned out to be enough, the narcissist could never be satisfied, was never grateful for anything you did, the narcissist never appreciated you, always criticized everything you did or acted as if it wasn’t good enough. Everything was focused on him, everything revolved around him, it was all about what the narcissist could get from you regardless of how it affects you. You felt defeated in the end, and at times you felt demoralized and defeated by adversity. You find yourself in a difficult, complicated and unpleasant situation.
While the narcissist seemed to happily walk off into the sunset, many people who go through this begin to lose faith in what they once believed in, whether it be people, principles, values or ideals. Many people wonder how God could allow this to happen to them, they may wonder why karma didn’t happen to the narcissist, why the narcissist didn’t get justice, how he could just get away with it all without taking any responsibility.
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How could he run away happy after all he had done to you, how could you be left with nothing after all you had invested in him.
It’s all part of your life experience and it’s true. You didn’t come here to live in a perfect world and lead a perfect life where the sun shines every day and everything is covered with roses. There are also unpleasant things in life that we have to deal with. Things that will help you learn more about other people and their nature, things that will help you learn more about yourself.
There is nothing more valuable than having this awareness, you can have all the money and success in the world, but what is it worth if you are not aware of anything.
You had to experience such things to increase your level of awareness, knowledge and mind presence. You don’t necessarily have to think that God isn’t on your side because He wouldn’t put you in a situation you couldn’t handle. You have everything you need to come out of this stronger and more aware. You may not realize it at the time, but one day you will be grateful for this experience.
Because it woke you up, opened you to the truth, now you know the true nature of people, you know what some people are capable of, you also learned a lot about yourself.
Karma catches up with the narcissist, he gets what he deserves. How we treat other people is a direct reflection of how we feel. His behavior should show you how the narcissist really feels. A narcissist will act like he is so much happier without you, but look at everything he has done to you, look at the state he left you in. Look at how he didn’t care about you and the way he treated you, this is not the behavior of a happy person. Only someone who hates themselves behaves this way.
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And when the narcissist leaves you nothing changes. He may post photos on social media and he may act as if he is happy, much happier than with you, but it is still part of the illusion. Remind yourself how happy the narcissist pretended to be when he was with you, this is just a role he played, it was only a matter of time before the narcissist shows who he really is.
The narcissist knows that no one wants to be around unhappy and angry people, so he hides it and pretends to be happy. If you look back, you’ll realize that’s what attracted you to him it made the narcissist seem attractive and you wanted to be around this fun, happy person until you realized it was all one big lie.
And now the narcissist simply repeats the same thing with someone else, a new source of supply who is as unaware as you once were. The narcissist deceives the new source of supply just as much as he deceives you, often even at the same time.
Karma catches up with the narcissist, every day is hell for him, that’s why he needs a source of supply. He can’t be alone, he can’t survive alone with his thoughts. He always needs something or someone to distract him from reality. A narcissist always has to project their shame onto someone else. A narcissist always needs someone to lash out at, he needs a punching bag. This is because the narcissist is internally unhappy and cannot cope with these feelings.
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When a narcissist leaves you, he thinks he got away with everything, that he won something, but that’s a completely different part of his karma. By leaving you without taking responsibility, the narcissist will never grow up or learn from his mistakes, and will remain the same for the rest of his pathetic and unhappy life.
A narcissist never grows, it doesn’t help him in any way, and over time it only causes more problems in his life. The only way to progress in life is to take responsibility for your actions and mistakes. Only then can you change what is necessary for your development to become a better person. A narcissist will never make any changes that will allow him to grow.
This is because the narcissist always plays the victim, it is always someone else’s fault. This is why the narcissist stays in the same place forever, this is why the narcissist remains unhappy and dissatisfied for the rest of his life.
A narcissist’s entire life is just a distraction from reality.
A narcissist never really lives he finds people, alcohol, sex, anything that will help him escape from reality. The narcissist is not happy and receives what we call karma. He is suffering consequences for his actions and that is why he is behaving this way towards you. It’s just another illusion, another distraction from his miserable life.
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