At the end of the relationship the narcissist no longer paid attention to you, he didn’t care about you, everything revolved around the narcissist, he only focused on himself and his needs, he only cared about what he could get from you.
He scapegoated you and used you as an emotional punching bag. The narcissist took out his negative emotions on you and became angry at you even if you did nothing wrong, for no reason or an imaginary reason, the narcissist wanted you to try your hardest for him.
Narcissist wanted you in this relationship to be like a hamster that just wants to run faster and faster on its wheel. The narcissist wanted you to run around trying to please him and make him happy. The narcissist wanted you to try to make things better while he deliberately prevented you from doing so.
Nothing ever turned out to be enough, the narcissist could never be satisfied, was never grateful for anything you did, the narcissist never appreciated you, always criticized everything you did or acted as if it wasn’t good enough. Everything was focused on him, everything revolved around him, it was all about what the narcissist could get from you regardless of how it affects you. You felt defeated in the end, and at times you felt demoralized and defeated by adversity. You find yourself in a difficult, complicated and unpleasant situation.
While the narcissist seemed to happily walk off into the sunset, many people who go through this begin to lose faith in what they once believed in, whether it be people, principles, values or ideals. Many people wonder how God could allow this to happen to them, they may wonder why karma didn’t happen to the narcissist, why the narcissist didn’t get justice, how he could just get away with it all without taking any responsibility.
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