Over time, as you settle into feelings of discontent and fatigue, you may realize that you’re tired of the games. Narcissists are often unwilling to let you feel better than they do. They tend to react defensively and may attempt to bring you down before you have the chance to assert your independence. They often perceive any hint of your self-assuredness as a threat.
In discussing concerns with narcissists, you’ll notice their lack of objectivity. They tend to operate with a very low level of empathy and a high sense of entitlement. They may convince themselves that they are the victims in any situation, citing your actions as the source of their unhappiness.
When you reach a point of recognizing that maintaining the relationship is no longer bearable, it’s crucial to remember that narcissists often feel the need to have the final word. This behavior is their way of attempting to preserve some sense of superiority over you.
In healthy relationships, there’s a natural ebb and flow when differences arise. It’s essential to recognize that no relationship is perfect. When you enter into an ongoing relationship, it’s safe to assume that differences will come up over time. Healthy dynamics allow for open discussions about thoughts, needs, and perceptions, leading to growth and maturity.
In contrast, narcissists lack the ability to engage in this process. They view differences as threats rather than opportunities for connection and understanding. Instead of nurturing mutual respect, they treat relationships as transactional, discarding those who do not meet their needs.
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