What are narcissists likely to say in their final days? What statements might they make? Well, depending on where the narcissist was—or is—in their life, their statements can vary. Factors like their success, age, and power can all influence their final words.
Fear will dominate their behavior, as narcissists are devoid of peace. They are likely to use their final moments to cause pain and confusion. Their last words will typically reflect their deeply ingrained patterns of self-centeredness and their need for control.
One of the most common phrases they might say is, “I forgive you.” This statement implies that you have wronged them and that, in their supposed goodness, they are choosing to forgive you. This is hypocritical and a lie. It highlights their lack of accountability and tendency to shift blame. They would never ask for forgiveness, as that would require admitting they were wrong. Even in their final moments, they continue to play the victim and insist that others are the problem.
In addition to “forgiving” others, narcissists may make other blame-shifting statements. They will claim that someone or something else is responsible for their predicament, but not them. They’ll convince themselves—and try to convince others—that their suffering or situation is someone else’s fault.
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You may also hear statements dripping with bitterness or self-pity. Narcissists might complain about how much they’ve done or given, lamenting how little they’ve received in return. They often feel that they are undeserving of suffering or death, believing they should somehow be immune to the hardships of life. Their delusions about being exceptional make their end feel profoundly unfair to them.
Some narcissists will cling to their grandiosity, making statements like, “You’ll never meet someone like me again,” or “This world wasn’t big enough for me anyway.” Their pride prevents them from accepting defeat, so they want to leave the impression that they were bigger or better than what the world could offer.
Others may adopt a defensive attitude, refusing to accept the reality of their situation. They might say things like, “I’m not dying; this is just a phase,” or “This isn’t the time or place.” Such statements often come from narcissists who are used to being in control and struggle to accept the limitations of their power and influence.
Additionally, some narcissists may use their final words to protect their false image and maintain control even after death. They might instruct their enablers—or “flying monkeys”—to continue smear campaigns or ensure their accomplishments are widely known. Their goal is to be remembered on their terms, preserving the image they’ve carefully constructed.
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Finally, many narcissists will leave behind hurtful statements intended to linger. These may take the form of critiques or accusations, aimed at cutting deep and ensuring they are not forgotten. Narcissists hate being ignored or forgotten, so their parting words are often strategic, designed to leave an indelible mark.
However, it’s important to remember that their words only hold as much power as you allow them to have. Do not let a narcissist—or any toxic person—speak negativity into your life. Reject their words, and don’t internalize them. Send those words back to where they came from and free yourself.
Before I wrap up, it’s worth mentioning that a self-aware narcissist might occasionally say something that reflects a desire for reconciliation. However, this depends heavily on their level of insight at the end.
In general, though, narcissists in their final moments are more interested in playing the victim and protecting their false image than taking responsibility for their actions. Accusations, blame-shifting, and guilt-tripping remain their top priorities. They aim to stay relevant in your life, even after death.
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