What Narcissists Don’t Realize When They Try to Destroy an Empath

In contrast, empaths are people who possess a heightened sensitivity to the feelings of those around them. They often absorb the emotional energies of others, frequently neglecting their own needs in the process. Empaths are inherently compassionate, caring, and intuitive, usually placing the requirements of others above their own. While this nurturing nature makes them incredibly kind-hearted, it also renders them susceptible to the manipulative tactics of narcissists, who can take advantage of their kindness.

When a narcissist encounters an empath, it resembles a moth captivated by a flame. The narcissist views the empath’s sensitivity and generosity as a chance to dominate. For them, an empath’s compassion appears as a vulnerability they can exploit for personal gain. Narcissists are particularly attracted to empaths because they perceive them as easy prey—individuals who will go to great lengths to accommodate their demands, provide the admiration and attention they seek, and crucially, avoid challenging their actions. In the eyes of the narcissist, the empath symbolizes an ideal source of narcissistic supply.

Initially, the bond between a narcissist and an empath may appear perfect or even blissful. The narcissist showers the empath with compliments and affection, captivating them through a process known as love-bombing. During this stage, the empath feels cherished and valued, prompting their inherent inclination to care for and support others. The narcissist skillfully knows how to make the empath feel unique, which only deepens the empath’s commitment to the relationship. However, beneath this facade lies a more troubling agenda.

As time progresses, the narcissist begins to unveil their true character. They start to diminish the empath’s value, attacking their self-esteem through criticism, belittlement, and manipulation. This marks the onset of the emotional manipulation phase. Narcissists are adept at instilling self-doubt in their victims, employing tactics such as gaslighting, which involves distorting reality or altering the truth to make the empath question their own understanding of situations.

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