The attention, appreciation, and affirmation that a narcissist receives from others are frequently referred to as narcissistic supply. However, this concept also encompasses the manipulation, control, and mistreatment they employ to uphold their exaggerated sense of self-worth.
Narcissistic supply is typically divided into two categories: positive and negative. It’s important to note that not everyone provides the same quantity or type of supply. Nothing compares to a primary supply, even when a narcissist has access to multiple low-level sources. A primary supply is someone who consistently and significantly fulfills the narcissist’s needs across all dimensions.
A primary supply is often emotionally reliant, easily accessible, and may admire or idealize the narcissist. This can include a romantic partner, relative, or close friend. For any narcissist, securing a primary source of supply is the ultimate goal. Consequently, when they lose such a significant source, their emotional response is often extreme.
Today, I want to discuss how a narcissist feels and reacts when they lose a major source of narcissistic supply.
The Narcissist’s Reaction
For a narcissist, having a primary supply is a power trip—it is addictive. Once they experience this kind of attention, they become hooked. If the primary supply escapes their control or departs, it devastates the narcissist, even though they may continue to feign control or dismiss the loss.
Continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
Leave a Comment