This is How a Rejected Narcissist Collapses Badly
- The Story Never Changes or Evolves: Genuine trauma survivors grow and heal over time. Their understanding of their experience deepens and becomes more nuanced. Narcissists tell the same victim story with the same level of rage years after the fact. There is no growth, no healing, no moving forward—just endless repetition of their grievances, zero accountability.
- Blameless Victims: Real survivors of abuse can acknowledge that while they were victimized, they may have also made mistakes or contributed to unhealthy dynamics. Narcissists present themselves as completely blameless victims who never did anything wrong.
- Obsessed with Their Exes: Healthy people who escaped truly abusive relationships want nothing more than to move on and rebuild their lives. Narcissists remain obsessed with their exes years later, constantly bringing them up and finding ways to insert them into conversations.
- Channeling Pain into Positive Change: Genuine advocates channel their pain into positive change. They work on legislation, support other survivors, and focus on prevention. Narcissistic advocates remain stuck in rage mode, constantly seeking new ways to express their anger rather than working toward actual solutions.
- Grandiosity: They position themselves as the voice of all oppressed men, the expert on female manipulation, the one who will expose a truth that nobody else is brave enough to tell. This grandiosity reveals their true nature.
Now, I’m not talking about black sheep here. Indeed, there are black sheep who expose the truth and dare to discuss things others prefer not to address. These are not the black sheep. These are individuals who are characterized by grandiosity, arrogance, and extreme entitlement. The minute you try to hold them accountable or ask a question, they will get so triggered that they’ll delete your existence from their pages, and you will never get to talk to them again.
The Collateral Damage of Narcissistic Advocacy
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