In today, we are discussing how a narcissist grooms their target—specifically, how they slowly condition a target to believe certain things and tolerate certain behaviors. This process is very gradual, so much so that many of us don’t even realize it is happening. Despite its slow pace, this is a powerful tactic designed to gain control over the target’s perceptions, beliefs, and life.
If you’ve ever wondered why narcissists are so effective at luring a target into a relationship that eventually becomes abusive—yet the victim doesn’t leave—this video will help shed light on how this happens.
The Grooming Process
Today, we’re exploring the grooming techniques narcissists use to gain power and control over a target’s life.
1. The Mask
A narcissist presents themselves to the target wearing a metaphorical mask, hiding their true self. This “mask” is a false persona—phony and inauthentic—crafted to charm and influence others. Narcissists often believe in this fabricated version of themselves, but eventually, it becomes clear to everyone, including the narcissist, that this persona does not align with their real character.
2. Love Bombing and Mirroring
The first tactic in grooming is “love bombing,” where the narcissist showers the target with excessive flattery and attention. They often combine this with “mirroring,” mimicking the target’s passions, interests, and values. This creates an illusion of compatibility, leading the target to believe they’ve found their soulmate.
Critics may see this as naivety on the victim’s part. However, most of the narcissist’s targets are empaths, individuals who project their own kind-hearted nature onto others. Such victims cannot fathom the deviousness of the narcissist’s actions, leaving them vulnerable and unaware of the manipulation.
3. Data Mining
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