The 3 Most Painful Things A Narcissist Will Do To You

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You’ll be thrown off your pedestal after the idealization phase ends – which usually happens suddenly and without warning. Unexpectedly (and irrationally), the narcissist will turn cold and distant. They will begin to criticize you at this point. They will constantly compare you to others, always to your detriment.

When you try to communicate with them, they will give you the silent treatment and make it clear that they are quite disappointed in you. You’ll start to believe you’re to blame, and you’ll try to reclaim their previous sweetness – to get the relationship back to the honeymoon stage.

The narcissist will accuse you of being needy, jealous, and suffocating as a result of your desire to win them back. The narcissist will occasionally bathe you in the loving behavior they displayed at the start of the relationship. They’ll then revert to stonewalling, apathy, and inconstancy. After you “meant the world to them,” they make you feel completely unimportant.

2. The Use of Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a narcissist’s manipulative tactic for making you lose sight of how they are bringing you misery. Basically, they will make you feel even more inadequate every time you rebel against their accusations — for bringing up the matter, for being insane, for stressing them out, for generally pushing them away, and for triggering their fury.

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