Silent Collapse of a Narcissist | No one Knows When This Happens

Number four: the caught thief look in their eyes. There is a specific look that a collapsing narcissist gets—the look of someone who knows they have been exposed. It is the look of a thief caught red-handed. My grandfather had this look in his last days. You will see their eyes dart around, as if they are calculating their next move while counting the number of people who see them for who they are.

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They may have a sudden, forced smile that does not reach their eyes; their facial expressions seem off, as if they are struggling to maintain composure. This look appears when they realize someone has figured them out and know that their manipulations are no longer working, or when they feel backed into a corner with no way to regain control. It is fleeting, but if you catch it, it’s unmistakable. It’s not just guilt; it is fear—fear of exposure, fear of losing their power, and fear that their entire carefully crafted world is collapsing.