Once the Narcissist Hurts a Loyal Woman, She will NEVER Be The Same

That is the narcissist’s worst nightmare—one he never recovers from because he never saw it coming. Her exit is so brutal to him that it shatters the narcissist’s ego into a million pieces. Look, the narcissist’s entire game revolves around controlling the narrative, doesn’t it? But once she breaks free from his spell and starts seeing things from her own perspective, he loses all his power.

The Narcissist’s Unexpected Loss of Control

Here is what narcissists do not expect: When a loyal woman is betrayed, she doesn’t just walk away from him; she walks away from the version of herself that tolerated his abuse. She stops being the woman who ignored the red flags because of that gaslighting. She stops being the woman who made excuses and had to justify bad behavior. She stops being the woman who thought love meant enduring pain. And she becomes what’s called a dark empath—one who haunts the narcissist in his dreams. Not in a toxic way, of course, but in a way that ensures no one will ever take advantage of her ever again.

She starts prioritizing herself, her peace. She stops explaining herself. She stops bending over backward for people who would not lift a finger for her. She raises her standards so high that the people who once had free access to her can’t even reach her anymore. This is when the narcissist’s whole self starts crumbling, as he does not know what to do at this point. Because he never thought she would change this way. He never thought she would stop caring. He never thought she would outgrow him. But she does. And when she does, she becomes totally untouchable.