the man who is hiding in plain sight each and every day, in every waking minute. Narcissists put on a mask to disguise who they really are, what they’re ashamed of, what they pretend they aren’t, and what they have to hide, even from themselves. For the most part, they never disclose to anyone, including themselves, their vulnerabilities, anxieties, doubts, or regrets.
When it comes to accomplishing a task, narcissists are solely concerned with how they appear to others. How to safely and effectively interact with a narcissist is covered in detail here; it’s not anything you’ll want to miss. So let’s get started without further ado. Here are tried and true strategies for establishing authority over a narcissist.
First, it would be best if you learned to keep your ego out of the equation. Narcissists, on the other hand, are unable to do this. Whether you believe it or not, you don’t need to have the final say to win. You don’t have to be right; you don’t have to explain or defend yourself if they don’t believe you. You can’t, in all honesty, but they enjoy watching you dance, begging, and pleading to be heard and understood. This is the problem: what you believe will not be accepted by them, and their egos are so big that they won’t even admit that they understand what you’re saying.
So put your pride aside and allow them to believe they were the last to speak up. Make sure you look after yourself; that is the best thing you can do for your well-being. Secondly, ignore them. Make sure there are no visible indicators of emotion at all when dealing with skilled manipulators. The last thing you want to do is put yourself in harm’s way. Don’t give them ammunition to use against you.
After that, keep your poker face on. The more you can control your feelings, the better. Don’t give them even the slightest glimpse into your thoughts and feelings. For your own safety and the safety of those you care about, you should keep that information secret. Not to throw one’s pearls in front of a pig, as the saying goes. In order to humble a narcissist, it is best to remove all the things they can use against you. When they do something you don’t like, you have to act as though it’s no big deal. Even if they are intentionally hostile to you, you will not be harmed by their passive-aggressive actions, nor will you fall for any of their tricks.
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