Your silence, your unwavering commitment to your own path, will be their undoing. It will force them to confront the magnitude of their loss, to recognize your inherent worth. It speaks volumes—a language more powerful than any words you could utter. I would never advocate silence as a tactic against a decent, well-intentioned individual. It is a harsh measure, one that inflicts pain. Perhaps you have even experienced it firsthand at the hands of the narcissist who jilted or discarded you. It is a devastating act, but your silence is necessary. It is not an act of malice; it is an act of self-preservation.
You are not engaging in this behavior without just cause. Even after discarding you, they crave your pursuit; they crave the validation of your attention. You cannot afford to take their actions, their words, their very existence seriously. I understand the gravity of their actions, the devastation they inflict, but you cannot trust them—neither their words nor their deeds. Every interaction, every gesture, is driven by an underlying motive, a hidden agenda. To decipher their inner workings, to truly understand their twisted minds, would require endless discourse. They are, without a doubt, profoundly disturbed.
Therefore, they will receive the message: your silence, your unwavering commitment to your own path, will force them to confront the magnitude of your worth. They will realize what they have lost. But please, let this realization not be a gateway for their return. Some will attempt to hoover you back into their web; others, driven by their stubborn pride, will continue their futile search for a replacement. However, you will remain etched in their memory—the benchmark, the point of reference against which all future supplies are measured. You are the gold standard, the one who transcends all others.
Embrace this knowledge. It is not narcissism; it is the wisdom gained from surviving narcissistic abuse. You once believed others possessed the same qualities as you; perhaps you even assumed they did. You underestimated your own value. This is a common consequence of surrounding yourself with people—friends, family, partners—who fail to acknowledge your worth. They may even exploit your honorable traits, mistaking your kindness for weakness, your naivety for gullibility.
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